Of course there is the BRIDE & GROOM in a wedding. Yet, many may not realise that there are more to it before an actual wedding takes place.
Forget about the dollars & cents... In Singapore, that is the obvious issue everyone is facing due to the high cost of living here...
A little bit more insight is to social problems -- family issues. Can the in-laws from both sides get along? I believe not every families can get along well. That is understandable considering the way individuals live their life differently since young. Would there be a way to conquer in an amicable way? What if both sides refuse to give in? For Malays, we call it "dugaan", a test from God.
Looking at it simply, shouldn't a wedding be all about you and your partner? After all, you are marrying him/her and not their mother/father? Easier said than done because human has the most influencing power than anything else.
What would you if there are disagreements between in-laws with regards to wedding preparations/arrangements?
Leah AA
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